"What folly on the part of man, not to take hold of God and find His action in everything. All you have to do is to Accept everything and let God act.” - Bible

Follow His teachings and then you will live totally in whatever situation you find yourself. You are surrendering and thus are Total. Surrendering is not sitting back and being wishy washy. It is totality in performance of the duty that is yours.

That is the first teaching in Bhagvad Gita: ‘Hey Arjuna Do your duty!’ What is your duty? Suppose you find yourself in a situation where you have certain responsibilities; then carrying out those responsibilities is your duty.

The Lord further says, ‘Do it totally, as well as you can, and with love in your heart.’ Do not forget that you have to shoulder the responsibilities to the best of your ability and so you must perform the duty with love, otherwise there is a mental block. Many people do their duty with indifference, or as a formality. While others burn inside with resentment while supposedly doing the duty.

It requires great strength to accept the situations one faces, and to accept it with joy, knowing deep within that there must be a good reason for this experience.

Christ says “I must flow... accept... I know nothing lasts... I will pass through this... and in due time will see the reason.”

Hence we must continue to do our Duty with love however difficult be the situation, trusting GOD to see us through such situation.